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View Poll Results: Would you marry someone as a second wife?
Never, under any circumstances 7 87.50%
Yes, if it wasn't against the law in my country 0 0%
Yes, if the Husband is just and equitable to both wives 0 0%
Yes, if the Husband is just and can support both wives. 1 12.50%
Yes, as long as the Husband has plenty of money. 0 0%
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Old 15-10-2005, 01:24 AM
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would u marry some one as a second wife ?

Would you marry someone who already has a wife, Getting married as a second wife?

i posted this thread estenedan 3ala wake3na elli bel mojtama3 3ashen hayde saret zahra mawjodi 3anna fa habet e3ref ara2 el kel w netsherak el ara2 w thanx
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mesh ghalat eno el wahad yheb marra w tnen w 3 la2no life is love kel shee mhalelo rabna bejoz welli be2ol ma bheb aktar men wehdy kazzeb el hob el teny ma byemna3 enak theb el awleneyeh w hayde el osas hob wahid wel awal wel akhir ma fee menna tol el aleb 3am yenbod fee amal la hob jdid .....
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Re: would u marry some one as a second wife ?

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Would you marry someone who already has a wife, Getting married as a second wife?

i posted this thread estenedan 3ala wake3na elli bel mojtama3 3ashen hayde saret zahra mawjodi 3anna fa habet e3ref ara2 el kel w netsherak el ara2 w thanx
Which community do you mean? Is it common in Lebanon???
If you are referring to it from an Islamic perspective, in my view, I think it is misinterpreted. During the Prophet’s days, polygamy (noting that it was present before Islam) was encouraged in order to keep a nation reproducing. It was not only used by Muslims, but also all tribes that were involved in primitive/ pre-civilisation warfare up until 1960s.
Another argument –also not appropriate in today’s contemporary societies- is a man can marry more than once to widows who are dependant. I personally regard it today as cheating.
The day he marries on me is the day I break his neck
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Re: would u marry some one as a second wife ?

mmm nope .... if u love a girl why would u go for another girl ? if u mary another that means ur missing something from the first so why to bhother wo stay wih her ? then divorce or solve it .. but have 2 at same time ? naaaa coz even if religion allows it ... on a condition in 2a3dalo wo shi so3eb la wa7ad ye3dol between 2
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mmm nope .... if u love a girl why would u go for another girl ? if u mary another that means ur missing something from the first so why to bhother wo stay wih her ? then divorce or solve it .. but have 2 at same time ? naaaa coz even if religion allows it ... on a condition in 2a3dalo wo shi so3eb la wa7ad ye3dol between 2

if man loved a girl and married her and still love her he would never go and marry another one ( bas fe menon be2olo al el hob ba3ed e lzawej besir roten w besir el zalamy bado yghayer) thats wrong coz law beheba ma byezha2 mena bedalo ye3mlo shee jdid la yshilo el rotin w yghayro then he wouldnever look at any women except her .. thanx thug for ur reply
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mesh ghalat eno el wahad yheb marra w tnen w 3 la2no life is love kel shee mhalelo rabna bejoz welli be2ol ma bheb aktar men wehdy kazzeb el hob el teny ma byemna3 enak theb el awleneyeh w hayde el osas hob wahid wel awal wel akhir ma fee menna tol el aleb 3am yenbod fee amal la hob jdid .....

la2 hanash smahli 3ardak be eno ghalat el wahad yheb mara w 2 w 3 la2en ma fee el ensen y2asem albo la 3 aw 4 2a2sem lal hob el aleb ma bese3 ella wehdy bas w ma fe ghayra wkel sheee mhalelo rabna la zrof alla halal el 4 neswen eza ken el rejjel ader ye3dol bayneton wma fee el ensen ella ma ymayez wkamen alla hallala eza fee asbeb like el mara ma betjib wled wlike fee eshya mashekel 3and el marra whek ,, ma fik ya hanash enak t2asem albak lal 2ola wel tenyeh ella ma ykon betheb wehdy wel tenyeh e3jeb aw enbehar hayda ra2yeh wthanx
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Re: would u marry some one as a second wife ?

i vote Never, under any circumstances
eno akeed ma zabta :P bta3erfo lish ? i think u know why
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i vote Never, under any circumstances
eno akeed ma zabta :P bta3erfo lish ? i think u know why

tayeb tell us the reason?
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Re: would u marry some one as a second wife ?

maro kinet 7abibi ekhod ra2e il 3alam bil sabab bas ra7 oul lish
3ashen eno ma bekhrob bet hada kramet sa3adty mabebny sa3adty 3ala ta3aset ghayry w bas wkholes e lsabab lol
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maro kinet 7abibi ekhod ra2e il 3alam bil sabab bas ra7 oul lish
3ashen eno ma bekhrob bet hada kramet sa3adty mabebny sa3adty 3ala ta3aset ghayry w bas wkholes e lsabab lol
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Re: would u marry some one as a second wife ?

as Sarah said... about the old days is so true..
and who would think about marryin another and just giving a reason that Prophet Mohammad married more than once... than he would be making an exuse to cheat.. coz in that time, Prophet Mohammad (S) had his reasons.. and i will not go into it now...

anyways.. for me: i would never marry a second one... no matter what... even as some will say: oh she cant give birth.. or she died... thats life.. i married her coz she is the one for me... so no matter what... she will be forever the one i wana be with... as they say: till death do us apart.. but i will say: and hopefully after death we get back again.. in heaven.. (nshallah)..
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nice reply wkd and neyela diyalla fik sara ,, enshalla ykon hakyak mazbot :P
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if man loved a girl and married her and still love her he would never go and marry another one ( bas fe menon be2olo al el hob ba3ed e lzawej besir roten w besir el zalamy bado yghayer) thats wrong coz law beheba ma byezha2 mena bedalo ye3mlo shee jdid la yshilo el rotin w yghayro then he wouldnever look at any women except her .. thanx thug for ur reply
u said it fe minon ... iza ma badna yeha men7arema wo iza btemsheh ma3na 7aleel ... so haydeh il fekra ...
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u said it fe minon ... iza ma badna yeha men7arema wo iza btemsheh ma3na 7aleel ... so haydeh il fekra ...

yeh i said fee mennon , i donno how men think lol
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I Don't Belive In That !! Cuz No Matter How Fair Was A Man He Wont be able to be fair enough !!!
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I Don't Belive In That !! Cuz No Matter How Fair Was A Man He Wont be able to be fair enough !!!
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I don't think any woman should accept it, no matter what the circumstances are, Love is Love and that is that..if a man wants to use religious excuses to be with another woman I just don't feel it's right whatsoever
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