Asking Someone for a Date.

[Father]

It seems simple enough, but it can be the most difficult part of a date.
So what do you do?

Biggest clue: THINK AHEAD

You don't want to be standing there going, "Um, ah." when the object of your affection says "Yes."

You can't just looked stunned and be too shocked to utter the next sentence.
You can't wait for that very moment to try to think of what on earth you can do on a date.
You need a more impressive beginning.
If you're at the start of a relationship or asking for a first date, take the pressure off by not using the "D" word.
Don't ask for a "Date" and don't call it a "Date."
If you're uncomfortable saying, "Would you like to go out with me."
Then don't say it. Make it casual. But (just a reminder)THINK AHEAD. Make it specific.

First - two deadly questions NOT to ask:

Do not ask, "You want to go out?" it's too open-ended and can lead to awkward follow up conversation.
Do not ask, "What are you doing Friday night?"
It's too vague. It may leave your potential date wondering exactly what you have in mind.
The other person doesn't know if you're just curious about what she/he is doing on Friday night or if you want to do something with them...

Try something along the lines of:
"You like to rollerblade? I was thinking of going out to the lake on Saturday. It's great out there. Would you like to go with me?"
Or if you're really uncertain or uncomfortable about getting together - go with a group.
Ask the question:

"Hey, there're a bunch of us going bowling on Saturday. Would you like to go?"
The operative word here is "us." It immediately takes the pressure off.
Planning activities to do on your date and getting together in a group are good ways to go - especially if you think you or your date might get "tongue-tied."
If you're busy or there are a bunch of other people in the conversation, you won't hit awkward silences and won't have to talk all the time if you don't know your date very well.
In summary, just remember when you are asking someone out:
1) Plan ahead
Know what you are going to say AND what you want to suggest to do on the date.
2) Be specific
The other person will be much more comfortable if they know exactly what your intentions are and what you want to do.
AND try to relax and enjoy yourself - worst case - they'll say they can't go out and you'll find someone else who will. Someone who appreciates you.

[Maryoma]

Man...Issam lol
min wayn betjeebon holi...all your posts are about dating ou midri shu...ino is that what you do when you come here? :P lol

[Lebby]

He is subscribed to a dating site that he paid with his uncle credit card, and he is bringin the ideas from there to here.

[Maryoma]

Looooooooooooooooool

[AKJ]

issam , u apply those stuff in ur real life eh ?

[Father]

watch and learn

[BilKill]

LOOOOOOOL from you Father ?

[A]

Father , well you talking in general cases ...
for me , i just look at the woman , if she was sexy and good looking , i say " hey look it , tonight i'm free and i will get done my work in little bit , i will see u at my home , and i got a bunch of new movies ..
if she didn't like it , ... there are too many come and go ..

[BilKill]

father, your Avatar SUXS

[Maryoma]

I agree with Balabeelo, your avatar sucks big time
*Maryoma spits on Bush* tfeh

I might be banned for that lol so it was nice knowing you all loooool :P

[CraCkEr]

why are you attacking father ?
Oh he've made peace with me and i can say now he is no longer gay !
See ? He is proving that on how to get a date from a GIRL a real GIRL , with long hair and bla bla a GIRL got it ? and for the last time his intentions now are on how to geta GIRL , how many times do i have to repeat it ?
THE GUY IS STRAIGHT !he is looking out for himself and yours now !
GOOD LUCK father , though ur ways are virtual and internet creations but again ! Who knows , you could just ask a girl out and she just might accept , with no rules or steps to take try that too take aTe advice on that !

[Cult]

man! aTe`s advice works only if u`r on a planet called ( Women`s Planet ) and u`r the only guy there! coz u might find 1 gurl to accept in that way!!!

[A]

loool Cult , more than the plant i'm living in ? loool
3a afa meen ysheeel , too many are available

[Maryoma]

aTe is capable of getting alot of women....he's ma nigga, ma tihko 3ano :P

[BilKill]

yes yes ofcourse he is the best

[Father]

CraCkEr, and who said that am using all those words? khayye ana i have my own ways , just trying to help the n00bs . "no offence"

[A]

Maryoma , lol tanx for your credit , i feel i'm abul3abed again ..
well, realy , Father's Tips are usefull and accurate , however thos plans are successfull mostly .
The lucky one is , who knows how to flip the words and attract the ladies ..
it needs some wit , willness and smartiez
Good Luck

[Khawtaaa]

lol all i know if a guy says: uhmm ahh wanna go out i'd prolly laugh in his face! i like a guy that would just call and go like: get dressed you're going out with me now! lol damn i like being dominated..a nice next-door kind of a guy would bore me out of my wits!

[Cult]

well anyone can solve my damned problem? am in love with a girl that`s in the same time my best friend`s sis. her brother is like my brother, and i don`t have the courage to express my feelings to her. CAN U SOLVE THIS FAZER ?